Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Thoughtful Recovery

29 days sober:

Today's love dare deals with being thoughtful about the one I love.  Yeah...this is something that I have struggled with in the past 2 weeks. It seems like all of the dares so far have been focused at things I struggle with! Ha ha, I though this was going to be super easy because I felt like I love my girlfriend fairly well already.  Yeah, THAT was wrong!

The dare is actually:

Contact your spouse sometime during the business of the day.  Have no agenda other than asking how he or she is doing and if there is anything you could do for them.

This is just something that I don't think about! I guess that it why I'm being told to.  So far I haven't really done it...it's going to be something that I need to do though!

I am really enjoying and hating this Love Dare thing.  I hate it because it points out all of my flaws (as if I didn't already see enough that I need to change), but I love it because it is strengthening my resolve to become the best father and husband that I can be.  Also, I feel like it is giving me a way to connect with someone that I wouldn't have otherwise.

This is my daily check in and also me hoping for another 24 hours! Tomorrow is the big 30!!!

-Grateful and Hopeful

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